I see my path, but I
don’t know where it leads. Not knowing where I’m going is what inspires me to
travel it – Rosalia de Castro
The Beginning of a unique experience
The email I received |
My
board exams had ended and I had a long stretch of holidays ahead of me.
Inevitably, I thought, “What can I do with all this free time?” I had always
enjoyed volunteering, having been with Youth for Seva since 2011. However, I
had been involved mostly in the education vertical and particularly with
government school children. Although I had enjoyed my experience thoroughly, I
yearned to participate in projects beyond my vertical. Little did I know what
was in store for me when I enrolled for the Seva Vacation program.
As
was the protocol, I attended the orientation and was glad to see a couple of
friends who had enrolled as well! We were told the benefits of volunteering and
shown some inspirational videos – content I was already familiar with. But, I
decided to treat this opportunity as a completely new experience and assimilated
all the information like a novice.
A touch of Virtual Volunteering
Cover Page of the Handbook |
My
first assignment came on 5th July when I was asked to work with
Pavithra ma’am for the handbook on ‘Effective Volunteer Engagement’ which was
to be released for the NGO workshop to be held on July 31st. This
assignment was definitely a challenging one because there were very few books
to refer to and almost none at all with respect to the Indian setting. The
handbook broadened my perspective because I had to primarily think about
volunteering from the NGO’s viewpoint. It was also a very dynamic process
because we had to constantly adapt the content based on inputs and feedback
derived from the rest of the team. I was not only involved in developing the
content, but also interacting with the designer and the printer. Hence, I was
able to gain comprehensive knowledge about what goes into the
publishing of a handbook.
A Glimpse of the Inner Pages |
Weekly
get-togethers and Enrichment Sessions
One
unique aspect of the Seva Vacation program was the weekly get-togethers consisting
of enrichment sessions. I attended my first weekly get together on 10th
July, which was coupled with a visit to the Gavipuram slum. As everybody else,
I had this mental picture of a place with no water supply and poor sanitation,
children running about when they should have been in school and generally
unhealthy conditions. I will not say that what I saw was far from what I had imagined,
but it was definitely much better. We went up to a couple of residents and
asked about their living conditions. What we gathered was:
· The water supply
was regular in a certain part of the slum, but irregular in another. They
obtained clean water on most of the days but when it rained they used to get
muddy water.
· The living quarters built by the government were sturdy enough to live in, but due to the large number of members in the family, they had to rent houses nearby
· The children were enrolled in schools, both private and government. The residents we spoke to wished to get them educated to a good level
· Girls were married according to the law, no cases of child marriage were reported
· One of the residents was aware of the Sanjeevini Free Medical Clinic, run by Doctors for Seva (the health arm of Youth for Seva). She showed us the health card which contained details of the entire family. Another resident preferred to go to a private doctor for checkup. The residents we spoke to were not really aware of the medical subsidies being provided by the government and private hospitals.
· Some areas of the slum were clean, and in others there was garbage strewn around. I realized that more than any other stakeholder, it is the people who are responsible for their surroundings
· In today’s world, with even rural areas becoming urbanized, the idea of a close-knit community is slowly fading. However, in the slum I visited, the entire community was cohesive rather than fragmented and seemed to stick together in times of adversity. For example, when the water supply was irregular, one household would help the other by allowing them to borrow their surplus water.
· The living quarters built by the government were sturdy enough to live in, but due to the large number of members in the family, they had to rent houses nearby
· The children were enrolled in schools, both private and government. The residents we spoke to wished to get them educated to a good level
· Girls were married according to the law, no cases of child marriage were reported
· One of the residents was aware of the Sanjeevini Free Medical Clinic, run by Doctors for Seva (the health arm of Youth for Seva). She showed us the health card which contained details of the entire family. Another resident preferred to go to a private doctor for checkup. The residents we spoke to were not really aware of the medical subsidies being provided by the government and private hospitals.
· Some areas of the slum were clean, and in others there was garbage strewn around. I realized that more than any other stakeholder, it is the people who are responsible for their surroundings
· In today’s world, with even rural areas becoming urbanized, the idea of a close-knit community is slowly fading. However, in the slum I visited, the entire community was cohesive rather than fragmented and seemed to stick together in times of adversity. For example, when the water supply was irregular, one household would help the other by allowing them to borrow their surplus water.
Thus, I was able to take back a lot from the Seva
Darshan because I was exposed to a scenario which I had only previously
encountered through the eyes of a third person – be it in books, documentaries
or television shows.
Let
me shed a bit of light on the enrichment sessions that formed the crux of the
weekly get together sessions.
- The first one was based on slums and rightly placed after the slum visit. We had Rameshji from Seva International who ran tuition centres in such areas as the speaker for the day. He enumerated the various aspects in which slums were different from the urban areas and pointed out that the lack of culture amongst its inhabitants, alcoholism and involvement in anti-social activities as a source of income were the reasons for the inferior living conditions. But he did not leave us with desolate pictures of poverty and apathy; he also made us understand that there is scope for change by narrating a few incidents, one of which is: In one particular family, the father, a daily wage labourer, spent all his income on alcohol. He used to fight with the mother and the children were left watching helpless. The girl who approached Rameshji was quite intelligent and wanted to go to school, but could not continue due to family circumstances. On one of his weekly visits, Rameshji was approached by the girl who requested him to visit her house. When he did, he was treated quite disrespectfully by the inebriated father and Rameshji quietly went away. When asked by the girl for a possible solution, he asked her to go and touch her father’s feet and asked him why he chose to do all this and neglect the family. This seemingly minor gesture made the father wake up and take note of the responsibilities he had to fulfil. When Rameshji met the child after a few weeks, he got to know that the father had turned a new leaf – he had stopped drinking and even went on to buy new clothes for the entire family for the upcoming festival.
The above incident might seem commonplace to the
layman, but for me it highlighted the need for ‘cultural’ education, in
addition to the formal education that was being imparted in tuition centres, in
order to bring about a meaningful change in the society.
- The second enrichment session was conducted by Mr. Rajesh Padmar from Jaago Bharat. He highlighted the achievements, both past and present, India had made in the fields of science and technology, economy, literature etc. and motivated us to contribute to our motherland.
- The third enrichment session was probably the most thought-provoking one. It had Mr. Ashok, a young advocate, as the speaker and he discussed with us the provisions of the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences (POCSO) Act. He also spoke about the emotional torment a child has to undergo, right from telling its parents that it has been abused to it being subjected to examinations and cross-examinations in the courtroom after a case has been filed. There was a heated discussion on whether it was right to award lesser punishment to a case of molestation in comparison to a case of rape, when the trauma faced by the child in both the cases is the same. There was also a debate about the misuse of such laws, and Mr. Ashok rightly said, “We know many offenders who are acquitted of the gruesome crime they have committed, but there are some who are wrongly convicted and languish in jail just because the ‘victims’ had their own ulterior motives.” Lastly, the topic of whether offenders of this kind can be successfully rehabilitated came up. One half the audience argued that it was the environment that influenced a person’s behavior and by controlling it, we could change a person. The other half vehemently objected by stating that the tendency to commit such crimes was deep-rooted and no amount of psychiatric counselling or medical intervention could rehabilitate the convicted. All in all, it was a session that left me with enough matter to think about.
My
main Seva Vacation Project – Teaching at Samarthanam Trust for the Disabled
Coming to my main project, I was assigned to teach at
Samarthanam Trust for the Disabled located at JP Nagar. Samarthanam Trust was
started in 1997 and it is primarily involved in providing support to
differently-abled persons by:
1.
Providing quality
education, accommodation and food
2.
Vocational
Training
3.
Placement based
rehabilitation
Apart from acting as a tuition and study centre for
school children upto postgraduates, Samarthanam has various initiatives like:
1) Techvision, an IT facility where audio books are recorded and computer
training is imparted
2) Srishti, where training for BPO jobs is provided
In midst of such a dynamic atmosphere, my
responsibility was to teach 2nd PU students, who were pursuing their
education through distance learning mode, History. The lessons I taught were on
European and World history. I thoroughly enjoyed this opportunity not only
because of my pre-existing interest in the topics I taught but also because I
had to explore a subject which I had lost touch with! Another aspect I must
highlight on is the experience of working with differently-abled children. I
had no previous experience, so I went in with an open mind – I was willing to
learn and adapt. Here’s what I discovered during the course of my teaching:
- The students I taught were extremely enthusiastic and most were able to grasp the subject matter very fast
- However, retention of the matter was quite hard for them, possibly either due to lack of follow-up once they go home or unavailability of audio books in case of visually-impaired students. Hence, I had to conduct constant revisions
- I had both Kannada and English medium students in my group so I had to switch back and forth between the two languages when I was explaining. This was challenging but also fun!
- All of my students wanted to stand on their own feet and believed that they could achieve this through education
- In the test I conducted after the lesson, Manjunath, a visually-impaired student of mine scored the highest:13 ½ out of 15! He had no access to the audio version of the textbook and remembered everything from what I had explained in class. This incident was a revelation to me about how far a person can go if he/she has the will to do so.
Me with my wonderful students at Samarthanam! |
During my volunteering, I
also acted as a scribe for a visually impaired girl pursuing her BA at NMKRV
Womens’ College. I feel that the atmosphere at Samarthanam deserves a special
mention: I was made to feel that I was very welcome there, both by my students
as well as the staff. The volunteer coordinator, Mrs. Vijaya, was always there
for the volunteers in case we needed help. There was minimal intervention
during my classes and I was given the freedom to
innovate. The most important part would definitely be when I was asked how the
class went at the end of the day. It is small gestures like these that make a
volunteer feel like a part of the family.
Other
Activities I was involved in
During my Seva Vacation, I
also ‘got my hands dirty’. If you’re thinking what I meant by that, well… I
participated in a sapling plantation drive. It was a fine Sunday morning on the
20th of July. It had rained the previous day and the soil was moist.
I and 20 other volunteers from Youth for Seva joined the RR Nagar Residents’
Association in the Turahalli Forest Reserve. We had two activities scheduled
for the day - one was to build a small bund to ensure that the runoff after
rainfall percolated into the groundwater table and the other was to, obviously,
plant saplings. The bund was built with the rocks and stones available in the
forest and we formed two teams for this. One team, which I was a part of, was responsible
for scouting for appropriately sized rocks and the other team formed a human
chain to pass on the rocks and ultimately build the bund. We were told that we
might find insects and even scorpions under the rocks, but that did not deter
us one bit! When we got to the sapling plantation area, we noticed pits had
already been dug up by the people working for the forest department. Five kinds
of saplings had been selected based on studies on amount of rainfall the area
received and the prevalent soil conditions. Most of us had never held a shovel
before in our lives, so we were given a proper demonstration of how we should
go about planting. Needless to say, all of us were very enthusiastic about it and
I myself helped in planting three saplings! I might have got some good physical
exercise from this activity, but the most important message I took with me was
the importance of teamwork.
The lush green Turahalli Forest Reserve |
Pits in which sapling had to be planted |
Building of Tank Bund |
Me assisting in plantation |
Some of my fellow volunteers who also participated in the plantation drive |
I was also given an
opportunity to conduct the ‘YFS Overview’ session on the weekends as a part of
the orientation for new volunteers. This experience not only boosted my
confidence to speak in front of people, but also taught me how to respond to
the questions asked by them.
The
denouement of my Seva Vacation – Youth for Seva Annual Day on 25th August
Just when I thought my Seva
Vacation could not get any more multi-faceted, the Youth for Seva Annual Day
came along. I had been a part of the audience in the past, but this time I
decided that I would be a part of it in any way I could. On 5th
August, I received a message from Ajay, another volunteer: “Akhila, how good
are you with theatre?” Though the message by itself seemed vague, I knew it was
for the Annual Day and I agreed to help at once. From then on began a series of
endless Skype calls and emails in order to finalise a script for the skit which
would be shown on the Annual Day. We had a brief to fulfil and had to come up
with a skit which would be engaging, while conveying Youth for Seva’s
activities for year 2012-13. Scripting the play was not very difficult, but
mobilizing volunteers to play parts was surely a daunting task. Moreover, we
had to also take care of back-end work like powerpoint presentations,
accompanying pictures and music, and ensuring the props are ready.
As fate would have it, I
also got an opportunity to play a part in the play. We, the core team,
practiced through videoconferencing regularly as we could not meet due to prior
commitments. I must say that the senior members of YFS supported us through
every step. Due to the large scale of the production, everyone was initially
apprehensive whether it would work out but the theatre team, who had christened themselves as ‘Drama for Seva’, silenced everyone by putting up a
spectacular performance on the Annual Day and garnered appreciation from the audience. And thus, my Seva Vacation ended on a high note.
Actors forming a bus during the skit |
A scene from the skit |
Today, when I am putting my experience down in words (and almost concluding it), I reflect on those times. I encountered
some wonderful people during those two months and had some life-changing
experiences. As clichéd as it might sound, this Seva Vacation has made me a
changed person. As expected, it has made me socially aware. But it has also
made me more outgoing, gregarious and a risk taker - qualities that were not
originally associated with me. Another incident I must relate at this point is:
On Teachers’ Day, I received a call. I picked it up,
only to find out it was my students at Samarthanam. They all wished me ‘Happy
Teachers’ Day!’ in chorus and even my naughtiest student, Karthik, asked me how
I was.
That was when I realised
that the ‘joy of giving’ is truly an ineffable one…